Let’s Talk About Human Design.

Yesterday someone asked my what do I do as a life coach, so I decided to share this knowledge that I used for my coaching, it’s call Human Design System. Here goes!

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I bet my readers from the Western countries already open to the knowledge of Human Design. For us, in Asian, Human Design is quite new. If I didn’t hang out with my Western friends in the public forum like corefreedom.com, I wouldn’t know such knowledge.

Nevertheless, let’s talk about Human Design. Let’s go the way others didn’t go.

The Energetic Fingerprint.

We all know that our finger prints are different. But when people tell us we all are the same in sense of will power, motivation, behavior, thinking and reaction towards achieving success; we kinda settle for the idea. And because of it, we struggle to be like others. We want to fit in.

The problem about fitting in is, it pulls us away from being our Authentic Self. In order to fit in, one must be completely like the others. Otherwise, we fail to fit in! And we think our problem (when we can’t fit in) is because we are less than others. It’s sad to think that way. Not to mention the struggles and failures!

It all happen because we do not know our Authenticity.

Our finger prints are our Authenticity. We cannot alter it. But finger prints are physical manifestation of our Authentic Self. What about non-physical authenticity? How do we know our differences?

Do You Know Your Authenticity Self?

I’ve been searching for my authenticity for years. First, I know that I’m an Empath. But how I define Empath, energetically? How does Empath actually look like energetically? Then I discovered that I’m intuitive. Which part of me can defined that?

Thanks to Human Design, which I discovered in 2013, lay out a blueprint of my energetic designs. In that chart, I know what I am, what’s my domain personality, how my energy body flows, where it should go, what I shouldn’t do (it is all energetically speaking) and what are my roles in this world? It tells me why I am here and what I can do to live my life to the fullest?

Because of Human Design, I know the Empath trait in me, I found out why I’m intuitive. And I also came to acknowledge why people think I’m kinda annoyed and freak! And I don’t feel sorry for myself anymore. In fact, I’m loving every part of me, from the mind to the Soul.

So long story short, Human Design is a Science of Differentiation between human. The differences can be in many ways and all is shown in a simple Rave Chart (well! It’s not that simple anyway).

What Made Human Design System Mostly Accurate?

Human Design are the combination of modern and traditional knowledge, which consists of Astrology, the Kabbalah, the I`Ching (which the 64 gates come from) and the Chakra System. The part where the modern science came in is the reading of the Genetic Code. You can read more of the explanation in the Internet.

As a human being, we are very complex creature. There is no simple way to explain our being without combination from all aspects including the inner aspect like the genetic codons, the energy body like the aura and the Universe energy like the impact of planets’ energy on us. So, Human Design is a very complex system and yet, it reveals the simplicity of knowing our vessel (the body and its energy) and our Inner Self.

What Human Design Can Tell Us?

If you get your FREE Rave Chart at http://www.jovianarchive.com, you’ll discover basic information about your Type, Profile, Not-Self Theme (in the other words, your dominant setback), Definition, Incarnation Cross and the most important part is your Authority.

Beyond the basic information, you have extra information from the whole chart and it is complex. The chart doesn’t explain everything in detail. You can either read and discover the information through the internet or you can get experts who knows Human Design to explain the chart for you.

Around the whole charts, Human Design can explain two main things about your entire energy system:

  1. The Openness centers. We called it Undefined Centers. These are the centers where you unconsciously live as Not-Self (the conditioned self).
  2. The Defined centers. These are your Authentic energy. You have the access to the energy around the clock. However, we normally unaware of our Define centers because our Openness centers are more overwhelming.

According to this finding, if we don’t know this knowledge, we might life our whole life through the conditioned self and thinking that’s who we are!

But is knowing this important?

It depends.

  1. People who are successful, doesn’t really go and find out their Human Design. That is because they already live their Authenticity Self in the first place. Human Design is just a platform that provides us the structured information about our Authenticity.
  2. If you are a Projector, it is essential that you learn about your signature. For some reasons, Projectors are those who always live as somebody else, they are the failures ones and they get sick before the age of 40s (I got sick by age 32).
  3. If you are the Manifestor, you should know how to control your thoughts.

The rest, I feel it is important for you to know who you are. What you will do with the information is up to you.

Is This What I Am? Does This Design Change from Time to Time?

This is your energetic signature. Just like your finger prints, it doesn’t change until you die (I was looking for politer word but naaah!). It says that if you experience Near Death or if you practice meditation for more than 30 years, it might change. But there’s not many information to explain in detail. So intuitively, I feel that the changes might happen on the gates.

Will You Like Your Design?

This is funny. The first time I came to know that I’m a Projector, I feel so down and frustrated. Hey! I run a business. I have a lot of ideas how to be successful. But Human Design says, I have to wait for the invitation! How could I wait?! I was screaming inside my head and I tried to convince myself that whatever Human Design was saying is a total crap!

Not long after that I found another article says that I need to sleep alone! I was having difficulties sleeping alone because I was afraid of darkness. I had nightmares! The first few weeks, knowing Human Design is a mood killer.

Then I saw the beauty in it. The clarity of Who I Am. The understanding of my flow and why I always imitate others. And I fall in love.

What is The Most Precious Information I Found About Myself?

All pieces of information are important for you. In my case, the most precious is knowing I’m on the right path. I started Your Personal Motivator coaching service because I love to help people. Turn out my chart revealed that would be an ideal path for me. Other than that, would be knowing my intuition channel, which lies in gate 57. And the chart also explain why I can see patterns and tap into insightful knowledge and how to share it with the world.

If you ever find out your Human Design, pay attention to the Strategy and Authority first. Live by that Design!

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Friction is an Art of Bonding.

There are so many ways where love comes around and relationships are built. Sometimes it comes around in some unexpected ways. It is illogical to say that relation could grow beautifully through a healthy confrontation, friction and tension. Process like this comes around, not just to test the strength of the relationship but bring up the growth through the friction.

First, let’s learn about friction because it is the door to passionate love and confrontation. We can learn about friction from the nature first. Before the plants can grow, the seeds will go through the friction, so it can emerge from underneath the soil. The plants within its intelligence knew that to survive, it must get the sunlight. Farmers musts wait for the seeds to turn into sprouts itself.

The seeds must go through friction itself. All plants and flowers that we see around us went through some friction, just to exist beautifully in this world.

In human, friction happens in many ways. When two people wanting to know each other, our auric field will go through friction. The process is expressed through our behaviours and communication.

Try observing people who are in love and look at the way they are flirting. That is some form of friction. When one auric field wanting to co-exist in the same space with another auric field, we get friction. After all, we are energies in motion. Friction is inevitable.

Friction is an art of Bonding. Without friction, we have no interest to bond with others. We don’t have to learn about it. It comes naturally when our auric field in contact with others. Flirting is just one aspect of friction.

There are many more types of friction that can be expressed through individual behaviour. For example; if you see two people arguing, that is a friction too. Without it, there is no growth in human relationship. Just like the seeds.

Intuition #2 – The Art of Listening

Intuition #2:

The Art of Listening.

Intuition is about listening; not hearing but listening to your inner guidance. The different between hearing and listening is huge. Hearing is what we perceive from the sound waves around us. Listening is what we perceive between the waves.

Intuition speaks softly like a wind breezing through us. Sometimes it comes in forms of voices or inner visions or smells or feelings. Every person has one or more language of intuitions.

All you need is master is the Art of Listening.

Do We Need More Malls?

Yup! I choose to post the picture exactly at this position.

I want you to start see your life and the world from different perspectives.

When everything is energy, everything is in motion. Motions comes with patterns and cycle. Everything that we know in this modern life has its cycle and patterns. 

What is happening to America’s malls, happens to Malaysia’s malls. And yet, we don’t take the pattern seriously. Being human we hope that things (economy, lifestyle etc) get better and stay the same (funny isn’t it?!).

Cycle of economic will get better but don’t expect solid growing in structures as the economic energy is moving in different directions.

Photo taken from Time magazine dated 31st July 2017.

Intuition!

What a wonderful gift for human. This morning I talked about Intuition practise. This exercise helps me because my decision making strategy is Splenic. It is about first impression in the now. Sometimes I get premonition in advance. You can try the exercise first and I invite you to share it with me.

If you need me to be on Skype, I’m good to communicate for 20mins (free). Enjoy exploring your Intuition 🙂

Wearing A Veil

Recognition is an unpredictable stuff. Some people can spend a lot of time with you but they still don’t recognise your true self. What they see is a veil that covers you. And because they don’t know that the veil is not part of you, they will say “the veil makes you perfect so keep wearing it”. It’s not their fault, and not yours either because we don’t know we are wearing a veil.

The moment you take off the veil, you become your True Self and suddenly these people don’t know who you are. They cannot recognise you because all these while they see you through a veil. But some people could recognise you from far away even they don’t know you that much.

That’s why I feel recognition of a True Self is unpredictable because we don’t know who will notice it and who don’t. And the moment you take off your veil, your life will change, your circle of people will change, your priority will transform and your purposes will be recognised.

Why Employees Experience Anxiety?

If you look closely, Anxiety doesn’t just happen in individuals. It also happens in corporate and organisation. Employers and employees have to take the pressure and without knowing how their body works, the Anxiety will become personalised and individual. Many employees feel left out and think the anxiety and pressure they feel are individuals and therefore, give up their careers.

Think again, how many people feel anxious at work these days? It’s not the work. It’s how each individual takes the pressure based on their body and energetic system. If they are not trained to take the pressure correctly, anxiety will be an illness instead of a pressure to deliver.

Right people for the right tasks is important to ensure the growth in any businesses. On top of that, training to manage the pressure can ensure the wellbeing of these people who help run the business and organisation.

You can send your employees to me for Anxiety, Nervousness and Stress Management Training. If you interested, please message me for more information.

Why you should not hide behind your anxiety

Do not hide behind the anxiety and depression because if we do that, we allow them to be our face and our identity.

Do not take the anxiety and depression as our enemy. Doing so will cause fights and wars between us and the energies.

And I can’t tell you to love them because that is not an easy work to do.

What I can tell you is Love Our Self First. Start with gathering our strength and courage. And slowly claim our Light. Learn to show compassion to ourselves even when we feel vulnerable. Respect our body. Say good things about us. Protect our sacredness. Reach out for help. Honour our journey.

When we love ourselves long enough, the essence of Love within us will eventually heal all pain that we endured. That’s what Love do. It heals all pain. Our job is to know how to Love and there’s only one place to begin; Our Self.

Trust Yourself

Trust is not easy. I’m not talking about trusting people. In fact, we trust people way too easy than trusting ourselves.

Trust ourselves first. Trust the sacredness of our Self. Trust the silent Soul within us. Trust our instinct and intuition. Trust our genetics. Trust our bloods and heartbeat. Trust every breath we inhale and exhale. Trust the fear and love we feel. Trust the anxiety that pushing us to wake up. Trust the pain that is screaming. Trust the healing that is flowing, that light is shining.

Trust is not easy. It was taken away from us for many centuries.

Trust is a practise. Trust is about surrendering to Life; even if our shadows shout and scares us with doubts and pain.

Trust that we are here to be different. Trust is the only way to begin.

Where To Begin With Human Design?

Where to Begin with Human Design?

It’s time for me to (officially) share about Human Design and my journey with it.
Let’s begin with this post.

Human Design is a complex system of individualism. The knowledge itself is a combination of ancient knowledge and science. Imagine you are pursuing a knowledge of genetic, biology, psychology, astrology and quantum. Can you do it in one day? You can’t because the information will overwhelm you.

When you get to know your Human Design and you see your body graph, the excitement to know the Truth about yourself kicks in. With so much information, it is normal to not know where to begin. From my experience, it took me three years to understand my design. I took the information about myself from time to time. Every single time I revisit Human Design, it always amazed me with new information about myself.

I do not own the photo. Credit to Mybodygraph.com

 

Start with Overview Reading or Foundation Reading.

With so much information structured in a single piece of paper, all you need to know is where to begin. That is why you should begin with Overview Reading or Foundation Reading if you can afford to pay more. Human Design Guide can help you narrow down an important information for you to begin to know yourself. Basically, the reading will show you the surface of your design.

For example, I got my first overview reading back in 2013. The HD Analyst took only one hour to explain the basic of my chart without overwhelming me with so much information. The best part is, being an analyst, she knew what is the crucial information I need as a start. She told me about my Undefined Emotional Solar Plexus. She said, “When someone is angry, you are twice angrier than that person!”. That hits home because I was working with an angry Manifestor (I assumed based on his characteristic).

And because of the information, I keep coming back for more Truth about myself. Three years later, here I am living a healthier and successful life, and also pursuing their professional education.

 

The Fun Begin With Type, Strategy and Authority.

My advice for the beginner; start with an Overview Reading. A person who is trained and knows the knowledge can give you an insightful information for you to begin. Once you had your reading, go live your life and experiment it based on the information you receive.  From time to time, you will get more revelation about yourself. You can also read Human Design books or get your chart analyse by the professional. You can also discover your career type through Human Design business sector called BG5.

And if you take Human Design seriously that you start to experiment with the way you make decisions, your life is going to transform because the frequency of your energy field is shifting and clearer. Try it for yourself.

 

Three Years Later.

Three years on this journey,  all I can say is I love myself more. I love that I’m designed to hold the power of being patience and joyful. I stop working long hours, I enjoy the spontaneity from my Splenic Authority. I no longer suffer from the Anxiety.   And the most beautiful thing I discovered is that  I’m here to serve others through the beauty of spirituality and also logic. And I honour my existence exactly the way I was created. For that I Am Grateful.

I hope you can find the missing pieces about yourself in whatever way Life offering you. If you find it through Human Design, feel free to connect with me. If you still searching for it, give Human Design a try.

Note: Rose Osman is a 2/4 Projector and a student of Human Design. She’s currently looking for study funds to complete two certifications courses. Please contact her if you are interested in funding her through the sponsorship program. Thank you.

The photo taken in March 2017 – Bean Brothers at Kota Damansara