Is Grief Around the Corner?

These few days I’ve been hit by the huge amount of grief. It attacked the center of the heart and caused big emotion wave around my system. I cry to relieve the pain. I got anxious from time to time, and there’s deep fear started to emerge.

I was wondering if I felt grief from an event that doesn’t take place or from what is happening right now.

A friend of mine (I seek out help few days ago) confirmed that there is an event soon will take place. The grief not just from the event but also from the recent events that are happening around the world.

My point here is not about the events because it doesn’t change. What is changing is our empathetic system. It is possible that our system is getting tuned in a wider spectrum.

Grief is considered an emotion with very low vibration. I seldom feel grief unless the event closely connected to me. To feel this amount of grief, which makes me feel that part of me is rip off and disappear, can be considered a big shift in the empathetic system.

If you feel that your empathetic system is changing, you might feel a sudden fear, anxiety, hard to breathe, a huge sadness, feeling emotionally heavy on your heart center and despair. Things like this can easily happen to anyone, and if you are not familiar with being empathy, you probably think you are getting crazy and depressed. If you feel such emotions and burden, talk to people around you, practice detachment and give yourself lots of love.

Meantime, my recent article in the Iskandarian might help you understand emotion, energy and intensity. I hope it can help you deal with your situations.


How to Deal with Emotional Intensity-Pt 1


Why You Should Bless Your Money?

A few weeks ago, I received a sum of money (in terms of payment) in cash. As usual I will touch all the money and say ‘Thank you’. What happened was, a few pieces of the money have different sensation when I touched it. I felt lack. At first I was wondering if I was the one who was ungrateful for the money I have. I did what I have to do in order to cleanse the money but the feeling didn’t go away. It was kind of stuck on me. So I asked myself, ‘where is this energy (lack) come from’? Bear with me on this;

First of all, energy transfers from one point to another. Along the process, it either stays the way it is, or it transmuted. When I asked the question, an answer came to me. Someone who owned this money before me, or perhaps someone who have no choice but to give this money to others (in this case, me) were the one who carry the feeling of lack inside him/her. When he/she touch the money, his/her energy transferred onto the money.

It is not easy to feel this kind of energy on money or on anything unless you are sensitive and has strong awareness. What I felt that the sender has frequent feeling of lack and that is strong enough to make the energy stick on the money.

This situation got my attention. The AHA moment is, since almost everyone in this world are strongly attach to the money, it also means we are emotionally attached to the money. Whatever we are sending out emotionally, stick on the money as well as it goes to the surrounding too. Now think about this for a while, since money is use widely for transactions and trading, instead of attach ‘lack energy’ or ‘feeling-poor-energy’ onto the money, why not we attach love, blessing and gratitude onto the money and let it spread wherever it means to go?

I shared this method with many people in my life. I learned it from Robin Sharma (which he learned it from a book – My apology that I can’t recall the book).  I suggest that you bless your money every morning if you can. Cleanse it and bless it before you use it. There is a mantra for the cleansing. And it is a same mantra you can use for attracting money. Here how you do it and please do it with all your heart:

The Method:
Place the money on your left palm and put your right palm on top of it. Then you say this:

“Thank you for being in my life. I love you and I bless you. I command you to go feed the hunger and the poor, cloths the naked, bring people joy, help people pay their debts, help people make a healthy living and I COMMAND YOU TO RETURN TO ME IN MILLIONS FOLD. Thank you and I love you”.

Then you spend the money they way you should spend the money. And realized this, Thank you and I love you is a cleansing statement. After you cleanse the money, you put the blessing, the gratitude and the love. These emotions of love, gratitude, blessing goes together with the money and it goes as far as it meant to be.  

And never feel lack when you trade your money! Never feel greedy when you trade your money. Your energy, intentions, emotions goes with the money and it comes back to you with the money. If you think it is fun that money comes to you regardless what are the emotions energy attach to it, you are wrong. There is no joy in getting money that never even last in your wallet for a week. It is no joy in getting money that in the end you have to use it to ease your suffering like illness.

Remember this dearest readers, what you give to the world will come back to you in millions ways. It may not promise you a million dollar in one go but it will come back to you non-stop. And it is coming back to you the way you sending it out. A joy comes back with joy. A love comes back with love. And a lack comes back with  lack.


Bless Your Money With Love and Joy

Bless Your Money With Love and Joy


Lesson from the One-Eye Cat

Everyone is a teacher. Let me rephrase that; everything is a teacher. That includes the animals, nature, things that move, things that still and the entire Universe. If we observe the surrounding, we will learn something from it. There is always a teacher present in our lives to teach us something about LIFE.

The One Eye Cat

The One Eye Cat

This morning I learned a lesson from a furry teacher. She’s a local cat known as Jessybell. Born with only one eye and adopted by packing department* team leader named Rebecca.

Although she is blind but she’s beautiful. She responds to English and Philippines language only.  She’s very active and playful. Yesterday I saw her chasing a plastic bag. This morning she was playing with a leaf. Something we can learn from her that physical imperfection never stop her from living a joyful life.

Pure joy exists when we go beyond the imperfection. See the imperfection through the acceptance will give us the perfection we have right now. Animal knows this.  Jessybell knows it too. It’s only we, the human being refuse to accept our imperfection.

Let’s learn the wisdom from Jessybell. You can have the joy eternally if you learn to see every imperfection through the eyes of acceptance and transmute it into perfection of JOY and LOVE.

Thank you Jessybell. We love you!

*I am currently being employed by a company in Brunei Darussalam to assist the entire team and to include the motivation factors in every area. I took this opportunity to expand my portfolio in motivation and healing, and also to share and expand the knowledge in management and human relationship and increase funding for Your Personal Motivator projects and programs.

I still provide consultations via online and by appointment. You can check out the details here. Consultation is now based on donation basis.  

Lessons from A Crow

Crow, a common black bird on this beautiful Earth. The appearance of this bird always misunderstood by many people. Manipulated in the movies, many people tend to believe that whenever crows is nearby, dark forces is nearby too. Whether this is true or otherwise, crows are unique on its own. In the spirituality of Native America, Crows represent justice, spiritual strengths and more. And there is another kind of more.

On one fine morning, when I was reading a book, I’ve got visited by a crow. Her appearance was obvious, near and loud. I put down my book and observe this unique creature. In less than a minute, she has already taught me something beautiful about life.

The Lessons:

1. When the world mentally labeled that white is clean and pure, whereas black is dirty and dark, crows don’t care about these labels. They simply didn’t get identify with it. They accept the way they are and live the life by being themselves.

Lesson: Acceptance and detachment. When you accept yourself and detach from labels made by the mind, you get to connect with your true-self. And it is easier to be your true self without any mind label identification.

2. Have you seen any crow hidden behind the tree because she’s not as colorful as other birds? Have you seen any crow that feels so shy and hide her loud voice? Crows are one of the birds that appear in front of you with high self-esteem. One of the evidence is their appearance rather louder than silence. What are they telling us about self-esteem?

Lesson: Be loud and be bold about yourselves. Even if you feel that you are lack compare to others, even if you feel less pretty compare to others and many more of lack, accept it because it will help you increase your self-esteem.


The Crow, a black bird with a high self-esteem

The Crow, a black bird with a high self-esteem

Accept whoever you are because acceptance is beautiful life in making. Never hide yourself. Face the world with all the self-esteem you have. Throughout the time, it will increase and become stronger inside you.

And always be proud of yourself! Expose your talents, your skills, your voice, your opinions, your knowledge about life from the world. Do it with kindness and love. What the world need right now is people who can fit the puzzle of life correctly by being themselves.

Remember this; when the crows not trying to be others, it gives a sense of beauty in the world of birds. The world has colorful birds and also just one color bird; the black crow. This is not sacrifice. This is the acceptance of being. And YOU are unique. We are unique. Only by being yourself, you are helping others being theirs. All of it will fit the puzzle of life beautifully.

Photo Credit: Linus Galleries.
Artist: Cassie Walker.

Unconditional Love Between A Guy and Seals

This video just made my day! This guy (Charlie) felt the unconditional love from the seals. Listen to his laughter, it was full of joy! And look at the seals’ eyes. It was full of joy too! I shed tears because I feel the love and joy over-flow within me.

And I’m sure many more people out there are an Empath; where you can feel emotions just by looking at it or touch it. (Note: I rather not stick with the label but in order to explain many more things in this blog, hence I describe the labels so you would know what I am trying to share in here). 

If you can’t feel the way I feel it, it is alright. Just listen to the laughter and the behavior of the seals. I hope this will make your day! I Love YOU!

Why Live In Hurry?

Only human living in hurry. We get hurry to work, to eat, when we are driving, making decisions, talking, pass judgement toward self and others..and yet we wonder where is love in life? Why are we have not been given miracle and healing in life? Ever ponder why life passes by so slow and yet we miss it?

I’ve learned from these mulberries in my garden. They take weeks to grow as it is. They breathe in harmony and yet they grow on productivity. Their moments of transformation are beautiful.

Let’s take life slowly today and yet live in productivity by achieve something better than yesterday. Good morning beautiful souls.

(Note: I’m posting from my mobile.  Hence I choose to write it as short as I can)


Lessons From The Ants

I was having my breakfast and I saw a small hole on the floor right next to my foot. I knew the hole is a door to the ants. They always come out through the hole whenever pieces of foods fall on the floor. Even tiny pieces of food will attract them to come out.

While looking down at the floor, an idea came into my mind. I grab a tiny piece of the food and place it on the floor. Then I started to clock the time and told myself “let’s see what the ants can teach us”.

  • In less than 5 second, an ant came out through the hole and went right to the food. Then it walked back to the surface of the hole and the second ant came out through the hole. Together they rushed to the food.
  • In less than 10 seconds, more than 5 ants came out and their sizes were bigger than the first ant.
  • In less than 10 minutes, the food was no longer on the floor, so does the ants.

Beautiful! I told myself. What are even more beautiful were the lessons they taught me yesterday. I’m going to share it with you and here are the lessons:

  1. When you see an opportunity, do not wait to grab the opportunity and never wait for the opportunity to come closer. The first ant took less than 5 seconds to get to the food.
  2. Sometimes in life you can never do things alone. Get help from the right people. The first ant got help from the second ant and the rest of the ants.
  3. Always work as team. Things get to be done faster when you work as a team.
    (Note: In terms of spirituality, consider these as your team: your mind, emotions, body and soul. Always make sure they are heading to the same direction as your purposes).

Here’s the picture of the team. Happy Learning to all of us!

Lessons to Learn From Ants

Lessons to Learn From Ants

The Lesson of Intuition and Happiness

One of the many things I’ve learned (still learning) is about listening to my intuition. It is one of many gifts given by The Almighty to us. Intuition is there not to appear as right or wrong (although we use these terms a lot), but rather to appear as a significant signs about what is coming, aligning, approaching or attaching to our being. What is appear to be right or wrong is just how we perceive it. After all, right or wrong is just another lesson to learn.

I remember she read this book. I don't exactly remember the author or the book title but I remember the cartoon.

I remember she read this book. I don’t exactly remember the author or the book title but I remember the cartoon.

So today I had opportunity to listen when my intuition was talking to me. The earlier plan I had was to drive back home from the hospital and not to stop by at any shopping malls. However, it didn’t happen the way I planned it because few hundred meter from a shopping mall, I had a huge attraction to visit a book store located in the mall. What I did was; I listened to my intuition.

About less than 30 minutes, I reached the book store and started to look for Reiki Healing book. I couldn’t find the book I want so I decided to ask the customer services and I found the reason I was there.

It was not the book I’m looking for but it was my long lost friend. She stood there screaming my name and I responded by screaming her name! The last time I saw her was in 1999. I told her that she kept coming into my thoughts recently and I do wish and imagine that I meet her again. Not just that, I explained the belief she has about happiness back in 1998 sounded crap to me at that time but now I was doing the same thing she did in 1998. I valued the experiences that I had with her even we are just a friend. I saw how she built her happiness from a book by Andrew Matthews. I witnessed her morning routine (exercise and jogging). I stared at her when she talked about happiness. Oh yes, once upon a time, I was very ordinary and skeptical about people being happy.

I’m glad that I found her. I hope she forgive me for being a skeptic before. As I always say, everyone we meet is a teacher. She was a teacher to me back in 1998/99 and she is a teacher to me today. The lesson I’ve learned from her is be happy, the rest is just life.

Internet Business Class and Wealth with Law of Attraction

Last year few people asked me if I ever thought of doing my own talk. My replied was “The plan is either end of this year (2011) or early next year (2012) depends on how soon the injury heals.” It was a little bit dragged but my dream came true. Last week on 9th June 2012, I had my first class in my hometown, Penang.

The class was more on Internet Business and techniques but I have added a 45 minutes talk on Law of Attraction (specifically on wealth attraction). My objective is to help participants build their own internet business with proper technical steps and roll it together with the laws of life like Law of Attraction and Power of Wishes (affirmations). The modules will help participants build the business in terms of giving actions and receiving the results and wealth.

The idea to start the class came one week before I travel to Penang for vacation. Yes! One week for a class, modules, marketing and arrangement, was indeed one crazy idea. But this was what I told myself when the idea came to me; Let’s Make It Real. Although I’m an optimistic but I’m also a bit of realist. With only one week I had in hand for everything and the place I choose, I don’t expect a crowd of 20-30 participants. My expectation is only 5 to 7 participants. Ask and you shall receive and I eventually scored 5 people for the first class with 2 people to help me on the photo shoots and others. So total people were 7! This is awesome as a start! (Just so you know that one participant didn’t turn up for the class but she is now having online class with me via email)

Here are some photos took by my Graphic Designer, Joe lai (and also a person who had help me bringing this idea into reality, Millions thanks to her) and by my niece, Zahrah who took photos beautifully even she had issues with her Canon DSLR.

Gorgeous Gentlemen for Internet Business Express Course and Wealth with Law of Attraction

Gorgeous Gentlemen for Internet Business Express Course and Wealth with Law of Attraction

There were two guys and two ladies registered for the class. The one that wearing red shirt was the host, Hezreen (below picture). She was the one who been asking for the class since last year and willing to travel to my place just to learn something new. I sensed her dedication was genuine and honest, so I decided to bring the class to her place. I only asked for free drinks for participants, she gave us more than that. What a beautiful soul she is.

Beautiful Ladies in the Internet Business Express Course and Wealth with Law of Attraction

Beautiful Ladies in the Internet Business Express Course and Wealth with Law of Attraction

The lady who sat beside Hezreen is Corina, who have asked me about Internet Business in 2010. Two years later, when I text her about the class, she was excited to participate.

And that’s me. I was giving explanation and differences between Affiliates and Drop Ship. There are huge different between being an affiliates and doing drop ships. In the class I have explained what are their efforts and things they need to do when they choose to be an affiliate, re-sellers or both.

I was explaining the terms of affiliate and re-sellers

I was explaining the terms of affiliate and re-sellers

Standing makes it easy to show a little expression

Standing makes it easy to show a little expression

I love the excitements that they shared with me especially from Hezreen and Corina. Both gentlemen, Rafi and Hafiz (siblings) were calmer and a little shy. Rafi seems a bit excited when it comes to artifacts and Sugar Glider discussion, which he has intention to take it into proper business.

We laughed a lot especially when we discuss about the marketing and wealth in Internet Business

We laughed a lot especially when we discuss about the marketing and wealth in Internet Business

The Wealth with Law of Attractions has given everyone new perspective in creating wealth in life and business. All the participants have no clue what is Law of Attraction and how it works. After few slides on the subject, they started to realize many things that happen to them in terms of financials and money. Hezreen quoted “Ah! No wonder I could only sell a house last month because I’ve said – If I could sell a house is great enough…then I did and I started to get panicked because a house is not great enough”. 

In the same subject, I have given the participants steps in creating wealth with law of attraction including creating positive habit and daily practices, and reprogram wishes within conscious and subconscious mind.

I’m planning to roll the same class again in Penang, Kuala Lumpur and Selangor and I believe in this, the numbers of participants is now growing. If you interested in learning both of these subjects or either one of it, please contact me via my email or phone numbers.

Last but not least, thank you Allah for making everyone dreams comes true.


Special Thanks:

To all the participants, Hezreen, Corina, Rafi, Hafiz, Lai (who have taken the class online), I would love to say this again; Thank you so much for the supports and willingness to learn new knowledge. I enjoy the knowledge sharing with everyone in the class.

For Hezreen, thank you so much for hosting the class and the efforts. It was beautifully arranged. For Joe Lai and Zahrah, thank you for being there to support me. I could not make this far without your guys help.

The Beauty of Imperfection

Do you remember when was the last time you wish you can be like the person you admired? Do you remember when was the last time you wish you have some kind of unique abilities or creativity? Do you remember when was the last time you say “I accept who I am” especially in the moments of failures?

Do you do this to yourself?

Do you do this to yourself?

When it comes to weaknesses, almost everyone wish that they can be different and better. We accept who we are when we score high in life but not when we fail. We pat and cherish ourselves when we achieve success but, do we do the same when we fail? Have you ever pat your own shoulder and say “It’s okay. We do great” when you actually in the moment of failure? We tend to give ourselves self-discrimination when we dealing with failure. I have to say it is a normal reaction that we adapt from the society (cherish the success and boo the failures) but it is not normal to be applied on ourselves.

As a human, we always seek equality from others but rarely from ourselves. We desire equal and respect from others but we rarely give the same to ourselves. Try to look back and remember what have we done to ourselves especially when we fail in achieving our dreams? Many of us would criticize own-self.

  • “What is wrong with me?”
  • “How can I failed?”
  • “Am I a loser?”
  • “Am I weak?”
  • “Why am I so blind?”

If you always ask yourself these questions, please stop and think this way instead. Failure is not entirely means we are weak. Failure is just another life teacher who is there to teach us the right way to the success. Weaknesses on the other hand are very general in meaning. A person can be weak at expressing emotion but great at expressing mind objectively. If the person choose to work as actor, he would fail but not if he’s the person who solve problems on financial. Hence, I don’t see weaknesses as weak but I see it as imperfection.

What’s the different between weaknesses and imperfections?

A weakness is the reflection of the imperfection. When we use our imperfections to score in life, we tend to bring weaknesses to the surface. When weaknesses emerge, we claim it as failure. That is why people often see failures as negative. But the truth that failure is nothing but a success guru in life.

Why are we imperfect? 

Imperfection is the balance factor in life. Imperfection is like pieces of puzzles that fit one another. Without imperfection, you and I are the same in everything. When everyone is the same, we do no longer need each other to live and that is not the purpose of life. Every human are made to be with everyone.

Perfection means all the space are equally filled and progress no longer need in life. Imperfection, on contrary offers space to growth. As a human, we are made to growth and to progress and we progress better in imperfection. The reason is because our desire to achieve perfection from the imperfection. That force of desire motivates us.

Imperfection is Beauty

Imperfection is Beauty

What’s the benefit of imperfection?

Imperfection allows us to discover ourselves deeper. Going through the challenges and failures will make us know self abilities and talents. Knowing our imperfection can help us build our strengths too. It is alright to be imperfect. We should not feel different from others because everyone has their own imperfection.

In marriage and others relationships, imperfection offers opportunity of learning and helping each other. I always remind couples that imperfection is beauty in relationship. Never see imperfection as the gap, instead see it as opportunity to growth together. This concept of imperfection applies in life too. I learned a lot from others because my imperfection didn’t give me the knowledge by itself. My imperfection helps me to connect with others as much as my strength connects me with other.

When some people use imperfection to achieve their goals, I would suggest you to use your strengths for this matter. Your strengths will help you outgrowth your abilities and talents easier. However, do not leave your imperfection behind. Your imperfections would often offer you spaces to growth especially on new things and new knowledge. In achieving goals, you may use your imperfection to oversee the failures in advance.  This method will help you reduce the failure and give more space to success.

The song I attached together with this article is dedicated to those who often see themselves as weak and fail to achieve in life. My message is your imperfection is one of the key to your success. Leverage from it. And rise whoever you are because your success is waiting for you!


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