How Ego Looks Like?

Ego; always appear big and smug. At least that’s how we portray an ego. Last month I’ve seen ego in different dress. Ego no longer appear big and smug, instead it appear like a child that need care from the mother. Sometimes it appears like a loving soul. And yesterday I’ve learn that ego has taken its place into a new level.

Ego can dress up in anything it wants. Often, we are fool by our own ego. It makes us feel good about ourselves and not about others. It always wants us to prove that we are right to others. In healing, healers who have not realize the existence of their ego when perform healing to others, will result as an ineffective healing. Beware of ego that comes with healing will create non-beneficial attachment between healer and the other person. Besides healing (in life generally), ego always make us feel stand out. No doubt ego has its positive role in personal development. However ego that appears in many dresses can be confusing and easily lead us to the situation we do not want.

Ego is good in acting too. It can appear as care, humble, self-control, self-defense and many more. The only way to know whether we didn’t act based on ego is to check out intention. Basic question to ask ourselves is “Am I trying to prove that I am right?”, because right or wrong is subjective whether it’s in the past, now and future. The answer will undress the ego and don’t be surprised that the actual appearance of the ego could be ignorance, arrogant or even selfish.

Whatever you do in life, always remember this; ego never looks ugly. That’s the reason we always put ego in front of us, even worst represent us. Ego best place is behind us, the place that could balance the strengths and the weaknesses that we have. Never place ego in front of us because we could be easily blinded by the beauty of it dresses and acts.

Beware of The Ego

Beware of The Ego

Do You Take Illness Seriously?

I’ve seen and feel the different between these two affirmations in improving health generally. There are two categories for it:

  • Fixing the illness
  • Improving the health.

When I’ve been given opportunity to perform Reiki Healing to my customers and others, I’ve seen clearly how they expressed their true goal in these two categories. At glance, both of it looks the same (that explain why many people think it just the same) but the result is not the same at all. Often time, people choose to fix their illness instead of improving the health. Allow me to describe the different to you.

Fix the Illness 

Migraine is an Illness

Migraine is an Illness

Fix the illness comes with many meanings. Fix it so the illness gets more appearance. Fix it so the illnesses can growth better. Fix it so the illness is good to be alive. We fix things for one reason; to use it or to wear it. So when we fix illness, we actually want to ‘use’ it and ‘wear’ it.

When we say; fixing the illness, we are focusing on the illness itself. We give energy to the illness to expand. We think we spend times in searching the cure for the illness (nothing is wrong with that) but we actually focus more on the illness. In Law of Attraction, what we focus on, expand…and illness is not an exceptional case.

Improving the Health

Many people didn’t realize that 100% healthy is subjective. I may not be able to jog like others but it doesn’t mean I am not 100% healthy. Health is different from one to another and it change throughout the ages and through external factors like accidents and more. The state of being healthy is subjective. Although being healthy is subjective, improving the health applies to everyone, daily. If you are sick, then you MUST improve your health. If you are healthy, you MUST improve your health too and to sustain your health level.

Unlike fixing the illness, when we are improving the health, we give focus on how to improve the health itself. Instead of focusing and give energy to the illness, we are focusing the methods, tools and tips in improving the health like the lists.

  • Exercise regularly.
  • Eat healthy.
  • Listen to the body in silence.
  • Sleep early at night.
  • Wake up early in the morning.
  • Say right words when it comes to health and illness (See affirmations below)

Different Direction

Yoga improves health

Yoga improves health

Imaging that fixing the illness is an action that leads you to the left and improving your health is an action that leads you to the right, how can it both result in the same direction? Health and all others in our lives are subject to Laws of Life like Law of Attraction and each term we speak has its own energy and vibration. Illness and Health are very much in different energies and vibrations. So when you choose to state your health being, make sure you state it with the vibration of love.

Affirmations in Health and Illness

Since everything is in creation right NOW as we speak, the first thing you should do is to choose the right words to state your health being. The reason is every word has its own energy and vibration. It attracts same elements that have same vibrations and it brings you to the place you wish to be (being healthy or being ill).

If you are person who always says, “I want to fix my ________ (the name of the illness)”, stop right there. Do not give any more energy to the illness itself. Instead say this affirmation daily (day and night) and see the different it does in improving your health mentally, emotionally, physically and spiritually:

“I am improving my health and healthiness is flowing in my body now and in harmony”. 



1. This article do not stated that you should skip your medicines as prescribed by your Medical Doctor or suggesting that you should ignore the medical aspect in your life.
2. This article is to improve your health through positive and love affirmations.
3. For more information and consultation in healing, please contact me through my email. Thank you.

Internet Business Class and Wealth with Law of Attraction

Last year few people asked me if I ever thought of doing my own talk. My replied was “The plan is either end of this year (2011) or early next year (2012) depends on how soon the injury heals.” It was a little bit dragged but my dream came true. Last week on 9th June 2012, I had my first class in my hometown, Penang.

The class was more on Internet Business and techniques but I have added a 45 minutes talk on Law of Attraction (specifically on wealth attraction). My objective is to help participants build their own internet business with proper technical steps and roll it together with the laws of life like Law of Attraction and Power of Wishes (affirmations). The modules will help participants build the business in terms of giving actions and receiving the results and wealth.

The idea to start the class came one week before I travel to Penang for vacation. Yes! One week for a class, modules, marketing and arrangement, was indeed one crazy idea. But this was what I told myself when the idea came to me; Let’s Make It Real. Although I’m an optimistic but I’m also a bit of realist. With only one week I had in hand for everything and the place I choose, I don’t expect a crowd of 20-30 participants. My expectation is only 5 to 7 participants. Ask and you shall receive and I eventually scored 5 people for the first class with 2 people to help me on the photo shoots and others. So total people were 7! This is awesome as a start! (Just so you know that one participant didn’t turn up for the class but she is now having online class with me via email)

Here are some photos took by my Graphic Designer, Joe lai (and also a person who had help me bringing this idea into reality, Millions thanks to her) and by my niece, Zahrah who took photos beautifully even she had issues with her Canon DSLR.

Gorgeous Gentlemen for Internet Business Express Course and Wealth with Law of Attraction

Gorgeous Gentlemen for Internet Business Express Course and Wealth with Law of Attraction

There were two guys and two ladies registered for the class. The one that wearing red shirt was the host, Hezreen (below picture). She was the one who been asking for the class since last year and willing to travel to my place just to learn something new. I sensed her dedication was genuine and honest, so I decided to bring the class to her place. I only asked for free drinks for participants, she gave us more than that. What a beautiful soul she is.

Beautiful Ladies in the Internet Business Express Course and Wealth with Law of Attraction

Beautiful Ladies in the Internet Business Express Course and Wealth with Law of Attraction

The lady who sat beside Hezreen is Corina, who have asked me about Internet Business in 2010. Two years later, when I text her about the class, she was excited to participate.

And that’s me. I was giving explanation and differences between Affiliates and Drop Ship. There are huge different between being an affiliates and doing drop ships. In the class I have explained what are their efforts and things they need to do when they choose to be an affiliate, re-sellers or both.

I was explaining the terms of affiliate and re-sellers

I was explaining the terms of affiliate and re-sellers

Standing makes it easy to show a little expression

Standing makes it easy to show a little expression

I love the excitements that they shared with me especially from Hezreen and Corina. Both gentlemen, Rafi and Hafiz (siblings) were calmer and a little shy. Rafi seems a bit excited when it comes to artifacts and Sugar Glider discussion, which he has intention to take it into proper business.

We laughed a lot especially when we discuss about the marketing and wealth in Internet Business

We laughed a lot especially when we discuss about the marketing and wealth in Internet Business

The Wealth with Law of Attractions has given everyone new perspective in creating wealth in life and business. All the participants have no clue what is Law of Attraction and how it works. After few slides on the subject, they started to realize many things that happen to them in terms of financials and money. Hezreen quoted “Ah! No wonder I could only sell a house last month because I’ve said – If I could sell a house is great enough…then I did and I started to get panicked because a house is not great enough”. 

In the same subject, I have given the participants steps in creating wealth with law of attraction including creating positive habit and daily practices, and reprogram wishes within conscious and subconscious mind.

I’m planning to roll the same class again in Penang, Kuala Lumpur and Selangor and I believe in this, the numbers of participants is now growing. If you interested in learning both of these subjects or either one of it, please contact me via my email or phone numbers.

Last but not least, thank you Allah for making everyone dreams comes true.


Special Thanks:

To all the participants, Hezreen, Corina, Rafi, Hafiz, Lai (who have taken the class online), I would love to say this again; Thank you so much for the supports and willingness to learn new knowledge. I enjoy the knowledge sharing with everyone in the class.

For Hezreen, thank you so much for hosting the class and the efforts. It was beautifully arranged. For Joe Lai and Zahrah, thank you for being there to support me. I could not make this far without your guys help.

The Power of Wishes – Part 1

In the previous article, I have mentioned about words that creating our lives. Today, I would like to share my experiences on wishes. I am a human too; therefore I did make mistakes in turning my words into wishes. Allow me to picture the mistakes I made, so you would avoid the same mistake in life.

Every human have been granted with freewill, including freewill of wishes. If we realize, it all started with wishes. I wish to be richer, I wish I could take itI want to be richerI want to take it and many more wishes. Either we use the word “wish” or “want”, we already wishing for it. Remember that “we create as we speak”, every wish we made, and we are creating it. It just a matter of time for our wishes to turn into reality. How good is that? Well, it is good if we wish for the great things. But what about those negative things we accidentally wish into our lives? This happened to me last week, anger and bad wish.

It is not easy to face anger especially when we are alone. I felt it came to me and it came quick. No matter how much I prepared myself to tango with my own anger, I slipped. When we get angry, we tend to say things we didn’t mean to say. Not just that, people who get angry always ask to be leave alone. To say it is already bad, to know it’s happening for real is even worst.

I just want to be alone

I just want to be alone

That’s what I did last week. I asked silently inside my head “I just want to be alone”. As promised that everything is in creating process right now, the moment I asked to be alone was the moment everything I love to be with was slowly taken away from me indirectly. I have to say indirectly because what was taken might not necessarily in human form. It could be situation we love the most, relationships or something symbolic to us. The best example is losing support from the people who always support us. However, to realize these smallest changes in life is not everybody’s favourite. In fact, many people only realize the changes in life when something relate to it pop up as a problem. If I have not conscious enough, I would not realize the changes too.

The moment I asked to be alone, everything that I was close with (emotionally, spiritually and mentally) was slowly walked away from me. The first thing that walked away from me was the emotional support from my best friend. Knowing her for many years and she never fails me. However, that day was different. When I asked her for help, she refused to help me. Here’s the weirdest part, she gave me hint to deal with my situation alone and there’s no need for her to help me. She left me alone in a car for more than 30 minutes and she was not that kind of person.

More things happened after that. My other two best-friends were supposed to have lunch with me and they were late. Even if they were late before, they will text. But last week was totally different. They seem like ‘don’t care’ anymore. We end up have our lunches separately.

The last thing that happened completely knocks my head and realized that I had wish for something I do not want. It was my ring and I lost it like a magic. The ring represents symbolic life to me. I was cleaning my hands with a wet tissue and poof! …the ring was missing. I realized it was there and in split seconds it was gone. From that moment I asked myself “What have I wished?”

It took me less than an hour to figure out the mess. The first thing I do was Ho’oponopono cleansing. I gave love and thanked the situation for the service and experience it gave me. Then I rephrased my wishes. I said “I am grateful that I have my family and my friends, I am with them and I am with love. My ring is in my bag”. I repeated it many times for an hour.

Three hours later, I slowly searched for the ring again in my bag. Suddenly my hand felt something solid. It is my ring and it was nicely wrapped with dry tissue. Magical isn’t it? Well it is a magic if you wish to see it that way. Later that evening, my best friends and I gather together and I told them about the wishes. They were sorry for things that happened but it was not their fault. I asked for it. The time them being late or when one refused to help me was the time I asked to be alone. Life is fair. God is even fairer.

The lesson is simple, careful for what we wish for.

In the situation where we get angry, calm down before we make our wishes. Avoid ask yourself to be alone or ask people to leave you. Instead wish for the space to calm down. The simplest example is:

“I need a space so I could feel the space with love”.

When we ask for this, we are asking God to share love with us in order to help us taking care the anger. Love, no doubt will help us reduce the anger too. Not just that, people who appear in our life at that moment of anger are people who could help us growth love and reduce anger.

It is important to know that it always never too late when it comes to create a wish. So, let’s rephrase our wishes and turn our lives into something positive and loving because we do have the power to change.

Why Do These When We Get Angry?

Yes we do get angry. We are just human. Many people gives many methods to reduce the anger when it exploded but these fives are the common ones. But do you know why we are encouraged do these when we get angry? There are reasons why it works.

1) Wash our hands with running water.
It is a symbolic act of washing out negative energy. It is just as same as we wash our hands before we eat just to get rid of the dirt and germs.

Wash Your Face When You Get Angry

2) Wash our face with running water.
Anger is heat. Try pour water on a heat pan and you will get smokes rise upward. That’s how we change the angry energy. Turn it into something light so it will get out from our body. And guess what, our head are the easiest exit.

3) Muslim was taught to perform ‘Wudhuk’ when they get angry.
Our bodies contain 70% of water, the cooling energy in our lives. What will happen when water meet water? Have you seen two drops of water meet each other? They combine and get bigger. Water doesn’t push water away. The symbolic act helps the water in our bodies to combine with the water from the nature. The cooling energy gets bigger and reduces the heat energy.

4) Walk or stand barefoot on the soil.
We came from the soil and the soil where we return. Another simple act of getting back to the nature for the healing.

5) Standing, Sitting and Lying Down Method.
When we get angry while we are standing, sit down immediately and if it doesn’t reduce the anger, lie down completely. It’s a symbolic stage of getting our bodies nearer to the force of gravity. Remember that heat rise upwards; we go the opposite, which is downwards. Gravity will hold us firmly to the ground and back to our nature again for the healing.

All these acts show us that at the vulnerable moments of our lives, nature is always there for us to get help and restore our energies back. God didn’t create nature for nothing, so use them to reduce our anger, anytime and anywhere.

The Beauty of Help

Help is simply means giving. Help is the fastest way to build relationship between yourself and others.  Helping others is like building the bridge that connects us to the things we like and we want.

Here’s are the beauties of helping others regardless human, animals or the rest of the world.

  1. If you help people achieve their dreams, your dream runs to you.
  2. If you help people walk out from poverty, wealth will storm into your life.
  3. If you help people overcome their fear with love, braveness is your legacy.
  4. If you help people understand the value of forgiveness, hate stays away from you.
  5. If you help people find love, love will always find you.
  6. If you help people outgrowth happiness in their lives, happiness is growing a life in you.
  7. If you help people build success from their failures, success growth from your failures.
  8. If you help people and environment stay clean, beauty and health live in you.
  9. If you help people expand their knowledge, knowledge is expanding in your mind.
  10. If you help people find lights, darkness stays absent from your life.

There are always opportunities to help people, animal and the rest of the world around you. So give help to whoever you can without question their backgrounds, colours, mentalities and personalities because help is also means giving love to the world.

Hand Reaching for Hand

Things You Should Do Before New Year – Part 2

Here’s the second part of Things You Should Do Before New Year. Get your part 1 here.

#3: Celebrate Your 2011 Success.

Celebrate Your Success the Way You Like

There’s no point chasing for success if you don’t even celebrate it when you achieve one. Celebration is like a reward to yourself and to all your efforts. When you celebrate it, you affirm your success (even a little one). Affirm your success help you build better self-confidence for your life journey.

Take a pen and write down the success you have achieve in the past 12 months. No matter how big or how small the success to you, if you think it’s worth to celebrate, right it down.

Then, make a celebration the way you like (I had mine yesterday in Baskin & Robbins). Read the success note (Declaration of your success) to your family or your friends or your love ones. It’s important to share the success with them because they are part of it directly or indirectly.

#4: Planning Your 2012 Journey

Almost everyone do this every year. The easiest part is to plan ‘material wish-list’. Everyone could write down what they want to buy or get in next year. The hardest part is to plan for personal and spiritual growth.

In life, journey covers the physical aspect (material, business, and career), mental aspect and spiritual aspect. When you plan your journey for coming year, make sure you didn’t left any aspect out of it. Here’s simple example for you.

Physical aspect – Besides planning to buy new stuff (like a car or camera or hp), you should plan on how far your career should go in 2012. What do you want to achieve in your career? How much salary are you looking to settle in 2012? What type of projects you wish to participate next year? You can ass financial aspect under this section too.

Mental aspect – If you can’t see the world with your own eyes, see it through others people eyes. Gain experiences through words written in the paper. Ask yourself, what area of life or knowledge you wish to explore in 2012? Economic? Autobiography? Motivation? Fiction or Non-Fiction? Once you know, right down how many books you wish you read in 2012.

Spiritual aspect – Spiritual can be explored through prayers and meditation. How far you willing to spend your time in 2012 for prayer or meditation? Write down what’s the impact you want to happen in your life if you pray or meditate? For example, if you are a temper person, the goal is to make you a calm person.

Every plan must come with goal. When you write the plan, make sure you write the goal next to it.

#5: Imagine and Clarify Your Move.

Your Imagination Must Get You A Feeling That You Already Have It

Imagination and Clarification is important. Without imagination, you are blindly living your life. Without clarify the move is like you walk to your destination without any signboards to lead you. Both Imagination and Clarify is also important to your subconscious mind. Remember, what you see in your mind, what you feel, what you say and affirm will be carried out by your subconscious mind as an order.

When you have the plans and goals, see clearly through your mind that you ARE achieving it. The vision must clear. Then affirm it by say it to yourself (Say it repeatedly like the mantra I showed you, which would be better. Avoid using “I will” because things are happening now, not yesterday and not in future)

Example: You want a new car. Your vision should be cleared that you ARE driving your new car. You ARE paying for the car with feeling gratitude and wealthy (This is very important part. If you feel burden, you are giving out signal contradict to your goal. Hence you might not be able to achieve the goal). You ARE looking fantastic when you driving your new car. That’s imagination. So feel it too.

Clarify your move is knowing and affirming what you are doing to achieve it. Your action throughout the journey must not contradict your desire. Clarify will help you stay on the right track to achieve your goals.

Take 30 minutes before you sleep tonight and tomorrow night to imagine and clarify your move for 2012. Make it simple, clear and have fun with your imagination.

If you require details on every step, please contact Ladyroses. I wish you Happy 2012. May all your goals and dreams come true in 2012.

Things You Should Do Before New Year – Part 1

I have this written in my Facebook Page few days before new year. I decided to publish it in the blog so everyone can refer it from time to time.

#1: Make Spaces.

You can’t bring new things into your lives when you still clinging on the old things. Make spaces is important if you want to live a better life in 2012.


Relationship: If you wish to be in a relationship or married by 2012, make space by having big bed, empty half of the closet (so he/she can put his/her cloths later) and stop dating the person you knew you will not end up your life with.

Emotionally: If you wish to be happy in 2012, make space by letting go the sadness, frustration, anger or hate in your heart. Happiness and love will not rise inside you when their seats in your heart have been filled by sadness and darkness.

Physical material: Let say you want to get new furniture. Make space by give away the old furniture.

Remember, making space is like a universal signal saying “I am ready to have this (name the thing you want)

#2: Get Rid of Negative Energy.

No point carrying the unnecessary energy to 2012. Many people wanted to achieve new goals (material, career, personal growth, relationship) but it seems hard to get it. The reason they fail is because they keep living on the same experiences (especially emotionally) like last year.

Part of the energy comes from within. It also means, we have control over it. This is how you can get rid negative energy before you enter 2012.

No Negative Energy is Allowed Here

  • List down the things that you STILL feeling bad about it on piece of paper. For example all the bad experiences that causes you hate and anger or frustration.
  • Once you done and before you end the letter, you write – “I’m letting you go now for good and I’m thanking you for the service you gave me” (Bad experiences taught us priceless lesson and they were there so we would appreciate good times in life. Bad experiences is not rubbish, hence we thank them for the lessons)
  • Crumple it and throw it somewhere else (outside your house). IMPORTANT: I’ve learnt that NEVER burn the paper. Burning it will only make the negative energy stronger.
  • Once you threw it away, it is time for you to build positive energy. Write down all the positive feelings you want to live with. For example: “I am more loving and harmony
  • Once you done and before you end the letter, you write – “I’m making spaces for you to enter my life. Please welcome in”. Folded and keep it in your sacred place.

NOTE: This is not a ritual from specific religions. This is just a way to make your mind see things clearly. The act of throwing or accepting makes your mind work better. Furthermore, there are many ways to get rid the negative energy. If you need more clarification on this subject, feel free to contact me. Happy throw the negative energy!

Attracting Money – The Fun Way

I was performing short meditation this morning and visualize wealth (especially money) in many ways. Few minutes later, I giggled while my whole body still on meditation post. A scene of money appeared in my mind and it filled me with joy. Remembering back the scene makes me feel hilarious, joy, abundance and happy.

Throw the Money You Have Into The Air and Feel The Joy Doing It

Few nights ago, my soul mate took few hundred dollars from her wallet and threw it to the air. Before she throws it, she nudged me softly and she said “Look!” and she threw it to the air.

Then I took my turn. I collected back the money and threw it again and we do it for another round. Not just that. Shortly after I collected the money, I placed it on the bed and lie on it. I even rolled over it like a sea-seal having fun rolling on the floor.

We were laughing. It was joyful and the feeling I had came to me back this morning during meditation. I realized that I don’t have to wait for million dollars of money to throw it to the air or sleep on it. All we need were few papers to experience the ‘money fall from the sky’. It was the feeling that counts and what I felt was priceless.

This is what I’ve learnt. When you think of money, you must think, visualize and feel the joy of it. Don’t think about your debts or the figure you have on the paper. Think and feel the emotion of joy. Feel the abundance. Feel like it flows freely in your life. Feel like it showers into your life like a pouring rain.

If you are feeling down because you have debts to pay or you don’t get the money you want, try this method. Grab the money you have in your wallet or your drawer and create the fun in your own way. Play game with it. Hold the money like it’s more than you wants. Act like you can buy anything you want with it. Do things you imagine to do with lots of cash in hand. Create the scene you wish to feel with the money.

Lastly, feel the joy and abundance throughout the game. And enjoy yourself.

Imagine the Money Come Into Your Life Like a Pouring Rain

Quick Tips – How to Build Your Love Life?

Do you feel it’s hard to get someone to share love with? Or have you been lonely for many years or always in and out of relationship? Life is meaningless if you didn’t share love with others (especially someone right).

So here are the quick tips to fix that situation:

1) To get love from others, you must first give love to yourself.

There are many ways to share love within you. One of it is to respect your own self. Never say negative things about yourself. For example “I’m not smart”, “I’m weak” or “I’m a loser”. Give yourself credit even if you make mistakes.

Spread Love with Your Smile

2) The easiest way to share your love is through your smile. Smile improves your look from inside.

You walk on the street feeling down and you caught someone smiling at you. The smile he shared when you are feeling down is not coincidence. Universe is sending you message and love to make you feel better. Smile gives love and love eases pain. So why not be the one who give the smile and ease somebody bad day. After all, smile reflects your inner beauty.

3) The energy you send out to people around you is IMPORTANT.

You get what you give. It applies to energy too. It’s a law of action and reaction. Careful of the energy you send out to others. Here’s a simple example:-

If you keep complaining about loneliness, you are sending negative energy instead of love (positive energy). When you send out the negative energy, people will walk away from it.

4) Go easy on communication.

Love growth through communication too. Say things that pleasant for people to communicate more with you. Avoid sensitive discussion or subject that hurts people feeling. If you go hard on communication, you will find it’s hard for people to love you. Communication takes two ways to growth. People listen to you when you explaining your life, you should do the same when people explaining theirs.

5) Start knowing yourself.

It is great to know yourself from A to Z. When you know YOU, you can help others know YOU too. Ask yourself question: How far do you know yourself? What you don’t like and what you like? Remember this; people get to know you the way you get to know yourself.

6) Never lie about YOU.

No matter how good a person at lying, the body languages and energy always speak differently. If someone caught you lying, you can say ‘bye-bye” to love and relationship.

7) Avoid seeking sympathy.

Here’s another simple example:- “I being dumped and since then I always get sick”. You may get the sympathy but not the love.

8′) Yourself first.

Give priority to yourself first doesn’t mean you are being selfish. At right situation like loving, self-protection and respect, you must give priority to yourself. Love yourself before others can love you. Save yourself before others can save you. Lead your own self before others can follow you. If you ignore the priority of yourself, others will ignore you.


If you need more than quick tips, Ladyroses is ready to help you. Send us email and let Ladyroses help you out.