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The Different Between Love and Relationship

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Many people believe that love means relationship. They believe that if they are not in relationship, they have no love in their lives. This is a big false belief and it gives confusion to a person emotionally. The truth is, love and relationship are two different matters. They related to each other, yes…but they didn’t born together. Here are differences between love and relationship.

Love Growth From Within

Love Growth From Within

Love:
1) Love already exist inside us. It’s within us.
2) Love blossom together with these emotions: Joy, gratitude, excitement, hope, passion, enthusiasm and satisfaction.
3) Love is internal.
4) Love never go away. It just ‘hides‘ when these emotions growth: hate, fear, despair, envy, boredom, worry, anger, guilt, irritation, disappointment and criticism.

Relationship:
1) Relationship is effort to growth together in every situation (good and bad).
2) Relationship growth together with time.
3) Relationship comes together with every emotion, not just love. So if you find people in relationship arguing to each other moderately, it is normal.
4) Relationship is external
5) Relationship is like a bridge that connect love within 2 people.

Relationship gets better and stronger when love growth from within. It means, love have to start somewhere in ourselves before it could growth externally. If we want to make our relationship (regardless what’s the relationship is) growth positively and growth with love,  give out the love we have in us first. The rest will come and growth naturally.

*Note: Original post was in Ladyroses Facebook Page  . 

Quick Tips – How to Build Your Love Life?

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Do you feel it’s hard to get someone to share love with? Or have you been lonely for many years or always in and out of relationship? Life is meaningless if you didn’t share love with others (especially someone right).

So here are the quick tips to fix that situation:

1) To get love from others, you must first give love to yourself.

There are many ways to share love within you. One of it is to respect your own self. Never say negative things about yourself. For example “I’m not smart”, “I’m weak” or “I’m a loser”. Give yourself credit even if you make mistakes.

Spread Love with Your Smile

2) The easiest way to share your love is through your smile. Smile improves your look from inside.

You walk on the street feeling down and you caught someone smiling at you. The smile he shared when you are feeling down is not coincidence. Universe is sending you message and love to make you feel better. Smile gives love and love eases pain. So why not be the one who give the smile and ease somebody bad day. After all, smile reflects your inner beauty.

3) The energy you send out to people around you is IMPORTANT.

You get what you give. It applies to energy too. It’s a law of action and reaction. Careful of the energy you send out to others. Here’s a simple example:-

If you keep complaining about loneliness, you are sending negative energy instead of love (positive energy). When you send out the negative energy, people will walk away from it.

4) Go easy on communication.

Love growth through communication too. Say things that pleasant for people to communicate more with you. Avoid sensitive discussion or subject that hurts people feeling. If you go hard on communication, you will find it’s hard for people to love you. Communication takes two ways to growth. People listen to you when you explaining your life, you should do the same when people explaining theirs.

5) Start knowing yourself.

It is great to know yourself from A to Z. When you know YOU, you can help others know YOU too. Ask yourself question: How far do you know yourself? What you don’t like and what you like? Remember this; people get to know you the way you get to know yourself.

6) Never lie about YOU.

No matter how good a person at lying, the body languages and energy always speak differently. If someone caught you lying, you can say ‘bye-bye” to love and relationship.

7) Avoid seeking sympathy.

Here’s another simple example:- “I being dumped and since then I always get sick”. You may get the sympathy but not the love.

8′) Yourself first.

Give priority to yourself first doesn’t mean you are being selfish. At right situation like loving, self-protection and respect, you must give priority to yourself. Love yourself before others can love you. Save yourself before others can save you. Lead your own self before others can follow you. If you ignore the priority of yourself, others will ignore you.

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