Most of the Time

I wanna wrap today’s experience in four words – Most of the Time.

Most of the time, we have no clue of our potentials.
Most of the time, we ignore our birthrights.
Most of the time, we are confused and in doubts with our existence.
Most of the time, we chase the reflection of others.
Most of the time, we look at the shadows and say “that’s who I am”.
Most of the time, it gives us anxiety and stress and depression.
Most of the time, we are unseen, unrecognised.
Most of the time, we have no clue why we are here.
Most of the time, we lost our way in this so called Life.

Most-of-the-time shall STOP now.

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Story of a Chair

Everything that we see in this Life has a story. If we listen and acknowledge their presence, we might know what lies underneath their surface. This is a story of a chair.

The chair that you see in the picture has many stories of love, joy, sadness and pain. That beautiful chair used to be a seating place for an old man who had dementia. A lady who witnessed fragments of his life told me “That’s where my master used to sit”. A visitor who saw the chair said: “It’s for the King”. And each story has values.

If the chair could speak, it will speak a language of Love. It probably says “Sit with me so I can fulfil my purpose as a chair”. It would welcome anyone to fill its purpose. And it will listen to all of our stories of joy, love and pain; without judgement. That’s a pure Love.

These days I sit on it and observe the world out there.

All Life has a story. All Life has something to share. And all stories has values to be acknowledged. The stories will be told in many ways. We just need to listen to them.

 

Know Your Dance

Sometimes it seems like Life hit us hard. But the Truth is beyond what we see. Look at how the raindrops hit the flower again and again. It seems hard, but if we observe this dance, we see each drop hits the flower gracefully. The flower did not break, and the raindrops did not die.

Everything flow and dance on its steps. And this is how the rains and flowers dance together. Know our steps and uniqueness. And when Life asks us to dance, we shall do it beautifully!

Note: I recorded the video in slow motion, but I’m not sure if the video will be played in slow motion. I hope it does.

Sometimes it seems like Life hit us hard. But the Truth is beyond what we see. Look at how the raindrops hit the flower again and again. It seems hard, but if we observe this dance, we see each drop hits the flower gracefully. The flower did not break, and the raindrops did not die. Everything flow and dance on its steps. And this is how the rains and flowers dance together. Know our steps and uniqueness. And when Life asks us to dance, we shall do it beautifully! Note: I recorded the video in slow motion, but I'm not sure if the video will be played in slow motion. I hope it does. #motivation #mondaymotivation #lifelessons #lifecoach #lifecoaching #humandesignprojector #humandesign #awareness #spirituality #wisdom #awakening #dontgiveup #loveyourself #graceful #nature #rain

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Are You in an Abusive Relationship?

Here’s what you need to know. People who are stuck in an abusive relationship are not stupid. Abusive is not just an act but also a chain of energy.

I wrote two articles about it and focused on the energetic level and explained why abusive relationships are challenging to get rid, and how to shift our awareness about it.

Link:
https://issuu.com/waveslifestyle/docs/issue_53_the_iskandarian_jan_2017_w/19
https://issuu.com/waveslifestyle/docs/the_iskandarian_feb2017web

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This Is My Story of LOVE

This is about Love and me and how I view Love differently now.

I was a different person seven years ago, and far way different 10 to 15 years ago. But the essence of who I Am is the same. Deep inside I could feel the same Me. That makes me realised that I Am the same Love. The only different now is I let Love express with freedom.

I used to be afraid to say ‘I Love You’ because I thought ‘I Love You’ means a commitment between two people. I hardly say it to my late dad. I felt awkward. Few hours before he passed away, he stared at me. That look was different, and it came from deep inside of him. I stared at him, but I didn’t even say ‘I Love You‘. It was Love looking at Love, but I never learn to say it.

That Awkwardness Shouldn’t Happen to My Mother.

I didn’t do it consciously. I just felt the need to express love to her without fear being judged (mostly by myself…didn’t we all judge ourselves?). So I said a lot of Love to my late mom years before she passed away. Nights after nights of “Good night Mom, I Love You”, that Love changed her and me. Few days before she passed away, we spoke only Love. She said, “I Miss You”. That was her last words and that was good enough to keep me going knowing she is loved.

And that was a long time ago. And I never stop learning to Love even though I had to go through moments of Tough Love. I guess I’m lucky because Universe sent me people who have already tasted the higher Love to assist me in discovering the essence of Love I had within me.

It took seven years to be our New Self entirely, so they said.

And as I live LBe The Love And Peaceove, I realised that Love can be so different, and it comes in so many forms. First I felt is about me and my feeling. Then Love goes deeper into my cells. It brought up all kind of pain so I could Love my body, my being and my Soul. Then Love appeared in the sounds of birds, in the movement of winds, in the colours of plants, in the silence of the night. Now I feel it in every breath. And it is still unfolding to me with wonders and beauty.

And whatever that I’m describing Love through my experiences can only be so limited because I had put words on it. So please don’t take everything I wrote here as ‘that’s all about Love‘. Love is more than the words I shared with you. Nevertheless, I hope the sharing could expand a little bit of our awareness towards Love.

Love Is…

Unconditional.

It feels higher. It is more fluid, gentle and peace. I remember looking into someone’s eyes and I felt suspended between knowing and unknowing. That’s Love recognising Love. It is for Self, everyone and everything. I now could easily say I Love You to anyone who needs it. I love saying it to animals, to plants…to the Moon, the Stars, the Sun…to anything. I said it to the pain I felt. Commitment doesn’t bother me anymore because this Love has no sensation of lust, ownership, guilt or shame.

Just so you know, Love heals! It healed me. It can heal you. But first, you have to allow yourself to be Loved; by YOU, by the Universe, by anyone and anything without judgement. Let go that old belief about I Love You. Accept it unconditionally. And never give up on Love.

Then learn to Love yourself. Learn to be YOU. Love is Your Self. Be that Love and spread it to the world.

Good night Beautiful Souls. It’s 11.50pm in the other side of the world.
I Love You, whoever you are, wherever you are!

 

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Five Secret Keys of Letting Go a Hurtful Relationship

Letting go a hurtful relationship is not easy. Many people choose not to let go because of this feeling; letting go makes them weak, alone and vulnerable. It is true that no one wants to be in a dark tunnel where darkness crawls up all over their feeling. The burden of uncertainties after the break up is unbearable, especially after damages done in the relationship. No one wants to bare the energy drain from the hurtful dramas.

People choose to forget but not forgive (because forgiveness is not easy too). So the next day they hear nothing about dramas. They believe that things are patching up and getting better. They want to believe that they are healing until few days later, or few weeks later, they were caught in the same dramas again, trap in the same arguments again and heartache hold them hostage once more.

The scenario I described above are the same scenarios that majority of the population are going through in a hurtful relationship. They choose to remain in the hurtful relationship because they simply fear of letting go. It is true that letting go is never easy. However, it can be achievable if all of us know the secret keys of letting go:

Key #1: Knowing that Hurtful Relationship is a Choice.
Pain is inevitable but suffering is a choice. A hurtful relationship like abusive spouse, mentally and emotionally drama queen or king or even a cheater can cause pain to the people in the relationship. No one can avoid the pain. However, accumulation of pain leads to suffering. The fine line between pain and suffering is the choice we make to accumulate the pain or to walk away from the relationship (for relationship that has no hope to heal).

Key #2: Clarity and Courage.
Once we understand the different between pain and suffering, clarity will open the door for courage to emerge to the surface. Clarity is the power. Courage is hope. To get here, we must first make our choice.

Key #3: Self Love.
The fact is no one can love us until we love our-self unconditionally; which means we love our-self with forgiveness, accept our weaknesses and flaws, self-respect and many more. People tend to ask, doesn’t self love sounds like being an egoistic person? The answer is no. Self love is a love we give towards our-self without judgment. For example; we know that we are facing hurtful relationship. Instead of bashing and cursing our spouses, we accept that we are in the worst relationship at the present moment.

  • We know that, by cursing him/her, we are cursing our-self in return.
  • We know that; by forgiving our-self for being in the hurtful relationship, our strengths (to walk through or walk away from the hurtful relationship) are growing within us.

Key #4: Respect.
Respect cannot be demand, it can only be earned. That didn’t just apply for others but for self too. If we want to be respected in the relationship; we must first respect our-self enough by not putting our-self in the hurtful relationship repeatedly.

Key #5: Have Faith.
What could be worse than staying in hurtful relationship? To see and feel a joyful and happy life is to believe that joy and happiness exist. How can we see and feel joyful and happy life when we are facing hurtful relationship and on-going dramas in the relationship for 247? Remember this; joyful and happy life happens when we are ready to live our lives in a joyful and happy ways.

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Five Secret Letting Go Hurtful Relationship

Five Secret Letting Go Hurtful Relationship

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Unconditional Love Between A Guy and Seals

This video just made my day! This guy (Charlie) felt the unconditional love from the seals. Listen to his laughter, it was full of joy! And look at the seals’ eyes. It was full of joy too! I shed tears because I feel the love and joy over-flow within me.

And I’m sure many more people out there are an Empath; where you can feel emotions just by looking at it or touch it. (Note: I rather not stick with the label but in order to explain many more things in this blog, hence I describe the labels so you would know what I am trying to share in here). 

If you can’t feel the way I feel it, it is alright. Just listen to the laughter and the behavior of the seals. I hope this will make your day! I Love YOU!

The Unusual Meditation and Healing

It was a rainy night. The night breeze dancing softly throughout the spaces. I stood in front of the bird nest. There was a tiny mother bird in the nest with her two babies. The surrounding was quiet. I stood there for more than five minutes to observe the life of this beautiful creature.

They were quiet. Only sometimes, I could hear the babies were chipping with their soft tiny voices. One of the babies rested her head beside her mother. It was a beautiful scene.

Whenever the breeze reached the nest, it will swing slightly to the left and right, and yet the birds didn’t show any sign of worries or panic. The mother will close her eyes and feel the breeze. She only opened when there was any movement around her. I observed them with my body and feeling but not with my mind.

In silence, peace rose in me. The life of the birds was simple. In the silence and rainy night, they cuddle with love. No complaint. No worries. Only peace.

After I’ve done observing them, I said “Good night housemate. Thank you and I love you” (yes they’ve become the housemate and we are developing some kind of friendship these days). If you wonder why I thanked them; there are few reasons why:

First, they have helped me with my inner peace and joy. They also have helped me on healing by bring up the peace in me. The best part was they helped me strengthen up my senses as an Empath and understand energy through emotions and vibrations of sounds. They simply helped me Meditate. They have become my teachers; tiny in sizes but not in lessons.

If you have problem with the usual meditation, try something like this. I meditate this way quite often. I love what the nature have for us. Sometimes it only took me 5 to 10 minutes. Just observe your nature; birds, your pets like dog or cat, caterpillar, plants or trees. Observe it with your feeling and not with your mind (to avoid judgement and analyze). Observe it in silence as it bring out the peace in you. The peace is already there inside you and these beautiful creatures and nature can help you unleash it to the surface. And this peace can help you on healing especially emotion healing, anger, anxiety and depression.

The Peaceful Life of Beautiful Creature

The Peaceful Life of Beautiful Creature

What is Love?

Many people falsely believe that love means a special relationship with someone. When I grew up, I was conditioned to believe the same. Therefore for nearly 22 years, I believed I have no love with me. Then I found a love. It didn’t last long, we broke up. With the belief I had with me that period, I was back to ‘No Love’ in my life.

What happens next? Believing that I have no love, I started to feel desperate to get another love. When I didn’t find one, I switched the love to something else. Luckily I didn’t go for drugs or alcohol. Instead I started to seek love within my career (I believe love is when I work 24/7 for 365 plus plus days with no medical leave…well I failed after 6 months) and non-social life like watching movies or online chat. It worked for many years (well it did help kill my time). Then I realized I felt empty again. I got bored. Then I was back to ‘No Love’ in my life.

So what’s actually wrong there? I realized that I was looking for Love in the wrong perspective.

Here’s the truth about LOVE. You don’t have to believe me. You can experience it for yourself. Take time to think about it and see the truth out of it. It may take you weeks, months or even years. My objective today is just to get this idea store in your conscious and subconscious mind. When you are ready, it will appear to guide and inspire you.

Love didn’t ‘exist’ on the external life, instead love exist from within.
Then what exist from within (in the internal) will be reflected on the external. How and why?
Because Love is within you. What’s within you didn’t leave you.
Love always present, only absent in the present of fear, hate, anger.
Love is giving. When you realize that Love is within you, what you do or give, you slip LOVE with it. Hence Love is giving.

Love is giving that every cell in your body giving love right now.
From the cells of eyes to the cells of heart, from the hair to the toes.
Love is giving and every emotion and thoughts you have will be filled with love.
And when Love is giving, every of your relationship (including the special ones) are filled with Love.

Sit in silence and feels it; even if this seems odd to you, even if you are feeling hatred right now. Sit and feels it. It’s already within you and it is free for you to feel it. Once you get it, Love appears in every aspect of your life. I already experienced mine and still experiencing it. I hope you do too.

By the way; here’s the article on differences between Love and Relationship. Click here

Since I accept that Love is from within, I started to see Love shapes everywhere. The flowers were round shaped. Subsconsciously when I shoot a photo, I got it from the angle that look like Love. Accidentally. The love shape was formed by three round shape flowers

Since I accept that Love is from within, I started to see Love shapes everywhere. Originally the flowers were three round shapes. When I shoot a photo, I accidentally got it from the angle that shape like Love. This photo was taken on my birthday last December. I love it.

Light: Between Us and Sunlight

Do you know that Sunlight takes around 8 minutes 20 seconds to reach the Earth?
The truth is even the biggest source of lights take that long to spread its light to the planet, therefore our lights that reach peoples’ hearts might take longer than that. Be patience in spreading your love and lights to others.

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